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The Youth
Group is St. Timothy's primary ministry to and
with youth. It offers young men and women between
the 7th and 12th grades an opportunity for spiritual
and personal growth through fellowship and service
to others. Led by Chris Battin, youth active in
the group learn how to make Christ central to
their own lives and to their relationship with
one another within the group. They grow in knowledge
of Christ, in knowledge of themselves as human
beings and in sensitivity to others. They learn
how to communicate their thoughts and feelings
and how to respect others' thoughts and feelings.
The Youth
Group meets almost every Sunday, September through
May, between 11:30 AM and 1:00 PM. In addition
to the weekly meetings, youth are involved in
a number of important special activities.
What
is Youth Group at St. Timothy's?
Thoughts on Youth Group:
We are called
to be in a relationship with God. How we come
to be in this relationship differs for each of
us. To this end, we have adopted a youth program
that includes spiritual inquiry and filling, a
program which includes sharing and support, a
program which takes our faith and transposes it
into ministry. Weekly meetings provide programming
which helps the youth look at issues in their
lives and see how their relationship with God
interrelates. These meetings are a time for experiencing
a Christian Community, a time of sharing our stories
as they relate to Biblical stories, a time where
youth can support one another, a time of fellowship,
and a time to explore issues of faith.
Many
youth do not need another social group as they
have their own through school and sports. However,
they will tell you that youth group provides a
safe haven where they can struggle with faith
issues and where they can be themselves without
having to put on any special masks or airs. Interestingly
enough though, many of our youth do become friends
and see each other outside of youth group. In
my experience the youth group has provided some
of our youth with an alternative group of friends
who all share the same values and who support
one another.
| My goal
is to facilitate and support the process of
personal and spiritual growth. Some areas
we look at regarding personal growth; |
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Who am
I as a Child of God? |
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What
are my gifts and talents? |
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How can
I be assertive? |
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How do
I affirm my own self worth? |
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How do
I make choices? |
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How do
I deal with conflict? |
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Who am
I as a member of a group? |
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What
are my leadership skills? |
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How can
I best communicate with others? |
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How do
I care and respect others and myself? |
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What
are my values in light of Christian values? |
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How do
I take healthy risks? |
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areas we look at regarding spiritual growth; |
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Who is
God for me? |
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Who is
Jesus for me? |
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Who is
the Holy Spirit for me? |
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What
do Scripture passages say to me and how I
live my life? |
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How do
I identify with characters and situations
in the Bible |
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How do
I nourish a Christian value system? |
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How and
when might I pray? |
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How can
I plan and be part of a worship service? |
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So I
am baptized, now what? What does that mean? |
| The youth
group looks at the same ministry areas as
the Vestry; |
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Fellowship |
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Food
and fun |
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Social
Activities |
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Being
present in Sunday Activities etc. |
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Pancake
supper |
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Pilgrimages |
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Overnights
and retreats |
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Spiritual
Growth |
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Growing
in a relationship to the living God |
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Diocesan
Conferences |
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Theme
overnights |
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Weekly
meetings |
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Praying
for each other and affirming one another |
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Ministry |
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Thanksgiving
dinner with seniors at Louisiana House |
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Work
camp - for those who have completed 9th
grade |
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Ministry
with the homeless through the Interfaith Hospitality
Network and in conjunction with The Lutheran
Church of The Master |
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A
new project with Habitat For Humanity where
we will work with nine other churches, most
of which are different denominations. Grades
7-9 will participate. |
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Other
smaller and shorter ministries |
Weekly Meetings:
Youth
group meets most every Sunday. The youth group
schedule is in Tidings. For most of the time the
youth meet together, grades 7-12. Once every five
or six weeks they will break into grades 7-8 after
church and grades 9-12 in the evening. As we have
many youth we often will have a topic for discussion
and then break into smaller groups. If I feel
the topic would be better suited to separate the
younger and the older kids I will do so.
Overnights:
The youth
often are away overnight for a retreat or diocesan
conference. Overnights or weekend retreats are
always centered on a topic or theme and include
spiritual work as well as fellowship. These gatherings
allow us to develop a theme in a more continuous
manner. Overnights are always well chaperoned
and the boys and girls are separated at night
with an adult female with the girls and an adult
male with the boys.
Outings:
The youth
group will several times during the year participate
in activities away from the church. For example
we may go bowling, ice skating, have a scavenger
hunt at The Art Museum, or go for a Christmas
dinner. I rely heavily on parents to chaperone
and drive.
Support:
I
am here to support not only your young people
but you as well. I am available to the youth if
there is a need to talk to someone other than
parents. I am also available to you should you
have any questions or concerns or pertinent ideas
for a youth group meeting. Please know that I
am here to support you in your parenting and have
no need to be your child's parent. My role is
to facilitate the group and to serve as a mentor
is that is appropriate.
Confidentiality:
Your young
people are told that what is shared of a personal
nature in youth group stays in youth group. This
is to build a sense of trust for them. At any
time should I feel there is something you should
know about I will let you know. I truly hope that
they share with you the kind of activities we
do in youth group, but if they don't please feel
free to call me if you have a question or concern.
Boundaries:
It is important
for your son or daughter to know, and I frequently
tell them, they are always free to decline participation
in any activity which makes them uncomfortable.
For example, some youth do not want to read aloud
at a worship service or share a comment about
some topic we are discussing. I will, and have
supported them, in maintaining their boundaries.
Please let them know that no senior is forced
to give a sermon during their senior year, although
I find that most of them want to.
Parent Support:
I encourage
parents to participate in youth activities. I
would be happy to have you attend a youth group
meeting at any time. Should you wish to do so,
I would ask you to let me know ahead of time as
it would not be helpful to have too many adults
in the group at one time.
I also need
a lot of support when we go to activities outside
of the church. I ask parents to help drive and
chaperone. Parents also help with special activities
such as our Thanksgiving
dinner with the seniors of Louisiana House,
our new mission project with the homeless, our
Christmas dinner, our pilgrimages, and many other
outings.
We Celebrate Diversity:
Our
Baptismal Covenant calls us to "Seek and
Serve all people loving our neighbors as ourselves".
As in their school worlds no two young people
are alike. They wear different clothes, have different
haircuts, and come in different sizes and shapes.
My goal is that we each celebrate each other as
children of God. It is what is on the inside that
is important. Most all youth have some rocky times
during these pre-teen and teen years, and I have
found that the youth ministering to each other,
in particular the older youth to the younger youth,
has had a profoundly positive effect.